Set from small to big goals

Dreams, who does not? There will be people who do not have dreams or turn them into goals. People who do not understand great thinking and usually say it, but if you’re crazy enough, just do not understand and I recommend NOT to read this further.
 
In the title, I suggest that you can draw your dreams from small to big, but I do not really mean that. What I mean, start with something small to reach your bigger goal. Put your big goal at the tip of the horizon and work on it. In fact, this blog is about my insights and what I am now, because I’m not really losing anything about it. How are my dreams and the goals related to it, but also my mistakes?

The first steps
Ask yourself what you want polite if you’re on your death bed? How would you blow your last breath out? What is your ultimate dream? Do you know that, that’s beautiful? Write all about it and what do you need? Then write down as you would like to close your last day on this earth, make it credible to yourself, not for another. When you do this you read it everyday when you wake up and when you go to bed. Hang it up so you can see it everywhere, kind of reminder when you see it, so be sure to read. Program yourself and focus on it.

Now you are going to climb the mountain
Let me be very clear, the road upwards will not be easy and sometimes very heavy. Do not go to see how you start, but get started! You know what you need to get to your goal. Sometimes you do not know what’s needed, but you’re on the go, like training or people helping you reach your goal. Before that time you have small goals that help you reach the top. You do not need people who stop you or do not believe in what you do, they just hold on. Find people who also have a clear goal. Or maybe even a common goal.

You can not everything alone is my motto
You need people to learn or support you with what you do. Frankly, I’m also someone who always wants to try everything first. I always had the idea that nobody could help me, but by shame and shame you become wiser. And sometimes you also need that school to take a close look. And between us, I’ve been so often I’ve lost my mind. And from time to time, it’s still a learning moment!

When you’re on your way
The road upwards will unfold for you and the puzzle pieces fall into each other, if you’re focused and do not sit down. Everyone has a day off or it’s not going well. It will also apply to you, but if you really want what you want, you will achieve it as long as you believe it. You must feel every fiber in your body. When you’re on my way, I need more and I’ve already joined a large bank with investors. I made the mistake of not taking a lawyer. What I read at first in the contract did me like, but was put under pressure and had to expose me completely. Put my unique plan with an island on the table with all the stuff and nowadays! When it comes to legal advice, take a good mind with someone. You will encounter many things that you did not expect.

Write everything up
This may sound a bit dull, but I mean it. This man was also self-evident and did not write anything. I remember if it was best laconically below, what would be the added value? Consider the added value that you only understand when you write down everything. From ideas to accomplished goals and everything you’ve encountered. See it as an archive that may consult your children or grandchildren, but of course you too. There is a point that you know that you’ve come across before and what’s it like to read back on how you did it last time or you’ve written an idea and suddenly get out of nothing again than it’s best to write that too. The smallest one can write very important later, hence write down everything …

My walk to my goals so far
In the meanwhile, I had the opportunity to buy the island, but not done, because everything in me shouted NO !!! Then you have to wonder if you are on the right track. It will be my greatest dream to build my own island as I dreamed. With the aim of selling the island again later with everything on it. The latter did not come true later, because I realized that I did not get lucky of an island in itself. I want to cultivate it as I have figured it out. And then celebrate my 50th birthday there and jump between the island and Gran Canaria from that moment on. It is now for me 6 years to work hard to achieve it and to sell it to the top. I have become more entrepreneurial and have decided to emigrate. Burn the boats, because I do not want to get back. My desire has changed in the course of time. It’s because I’m on my way. Then change your plans and add them, but with the aim in the visor. I will be very honest that I still want a Tesla, but not now, because I want to use all the money to accomplish everything as quickly as possible. My health and its optimization now stand at number 1, because when you’re healthy you can do more and just do more, I’m the living proof of it. I have spent many days doing things that did not lead to my goal. That realization has not been as long as I dare to confess you. That’s why I’m leaving for a single trip in early 2018. I do not mention the date here, but it is clear. At the new place, I will keep you informed and I will write more about the road I’m driving. Also, the intention is to share my experiences as a speaker and a coach, because that is also a passion for me. Only I am convinced that it will only be a success until my 50th birthday. I notice that focus can only be continued. You must feel that before you move on.

Want to read more about this?
This is, of course, only the beginning. Want to know more about this? Then I have a few links / tips for you at the bottom of the blog. Do you want me to get deeper into what I’ve already encountered and where I stand, let me know. Also let us know how you would like to take it. For example, with a blog or just a video, but can also be a podcast, it’s up to you. I like to read how you want to receive it.

Thank you for reading this blog.

Greetings and hug, Jouke

Links / Tips:
Gary Vaynerchuk
Prince Ea
Richard Branson

Where does it all come from?

Sometimes I start writing and I do not know where it goes. It's quite strange, because it seems that everything goes so easy when I write business, almost without thought.


I want to leave my mind today today. The idea that you could write thoughtlessly is a fable for many people, but why can I do it and it just happens. By the way, it is not everyday or on command. You feel, at least. And yet I wonder where it comes from.


Sometimes you do not have to know everything
Where it comes from is probably my subconscious mind. Honestly, it is now a question of myself, but what about it now? I do not know is that bad? No I do not think so. It would just be nice if I know how to get that letter just coming up in me. You read it, it fascinates me. Just like i sometimes know things of people who only know them and have never shared with me at all. How can I know?

What then is the higher power?
The question you can attach to it is a religion or belief, but actually I am an atheist according to many people. And yet it is not entirely true, because everything is vibrant and in that way we are connected to each other or we are connected to each other if there is harmony. There is no God looking at it. And yet I'm sure there's more. You know, the law of attraction. I'm sure you can attract each other, but if there are any miracles that happen to me, I'm going too far. Attracting that I'm sure, because I've already attracted people who have been or have been important to me. It sounds a bit swollen, but I'm sincerely grateful every day. I look around and see what I have. And I also consider the things / things that I would like to have.

Have or greed
Now that I am thinking about this, I have something to do with my heart. Whoever reads my blogs knows that I have a chronic headache. And in addition, a bad build up of vitamin D. What do you get from headache, fatigue and then lack of vitamin D, not motivating, I can report you. And yet I motivate myself every day to take steps to make my dreams come true. Living in my own island and in Gran Canaria are my big goals. The last I start with in January 2018. Why? For the simple reason I always want to be charged and Gran Canaria is the ideal place. Not too hot and not too cold, almost always the same temperature. The island itself comes from a dream that I always had as a little child. We went a lot on weekends by boat to an island. I fantasized over it and often returned in the rest of my life. It became crazy when I found out that the island was still dreaming about. It got worse because the island was for sale for far too much money, in my perception. These two things have nothing to do with greed. It's because I want to live my ideal life, be happy with what I have, not just material.

And so you see that the demand has more load
The desire to live in Gran Canaria is enormous at this moment. The island also has a great desire, but not as big as Gran Canaria. I can say that when I first do the one, then the other one will get out of the paint. That's why I think so much of my desire.

Do you know what's crazy?
It just happens to me. And so I come from the beginning, where is it from? I really have no idea, but what's that great to see and to be who I want to be ...


Greetings and hug, Jouke

All the beautiful comes slowly

Everything is evident in our lives. Sometimes it's worth the wait and sometimes you ask yourself "is this?". I learn every day and know like no other that perception is different to everyone. Also when it comes to fast and slow business.

Where did I stay 5 years ago and where I am now. I can tell you a whole different person. More positively, some are more fun and others are not right. It will be different in 5 years. The world changes and we as human beings too, that's evident. Changes are good, even if you are not waiting for it. Slowly, too, you will find the changes you like, but the road does not have to be too bad.

Best to want a lot ...
When you want a lot or something that is even elusive to others, that might be hard work. I think it's the few ways you have to achieve what you want. Sit down on your chair as I did for a long time, you will not help. You may want a lot, but action is necessary. If you do not take action is the only question that can make yes to yourself "Do I really want this?" If you do not really want it, you will not take action. So best want a lot = ACTION!

How do you start?
This is really a question I get multiple times ...
Just start my answer. If you do not see that, how will you get into action? For the sake of clarity, I recognize this phase very well. Wanted a lot and I was not in action. When I got into action, the motivation was so far. And then the people who say to you that you can not and you are disturbed and have to do normal and have to go for a normal job. I've had them all, all those people are past and often I too, because if you started about people from the past, yes that was normal now, but that same kind of people also lived. There were even people locked up because they were foolish. Now we really have a lot more possibilities, but you have to run it and then start ...

If you have nothing
If you have nothing, then you have nothing. When you look around you see how much you already have. There is not much needed, live from abundance. I now look around and see a massive oak table, a dishwasher, leather sofa, television, media center, fridge and so I can continue for a while. Even if you have a cardboard box under a viaduct, you still have a cardboard box and clothes. From that point of view everything is possible. In fact, I think you need to get it better when there's a cold winter ahead.

Need or strong desire
If you do not have a strong desire, you need a need. The famous story known as Burn The Boats, is no way back. Can also help to get on. And stronger yet. I'm going to take a single trip in January 2018, a way back, but not earlier than what I want to achieve. Only then can I book a trip. My desire is strong enough, but because of too many incentives I will not save it here. I know that myself and know that I need to find an optimal environment with someone who knows me, but also wants to, so as extra a stick behind the door. And because I'm going to a place where you can not come back for a while, it's even more important to succeed.

I will take you on that adventure
I'm going to show why I'm going to pick this road. How do you get where you want to be? It's do, but I'm going to take you. Therefore, be sure to follow this blog because there are very beautiful and exciting moments. And you will see that all the beautiful is coming slowly.

Greetings and hug, Jouke

Life is a gift, unpack it

The beauty of life is that you can make yourself some of it, only you. And that’s why I want to share with you.

Everyone has their own perception of life with everything on it. That’s nice and it’s nice to each other you can support each other and talk about the wonders of life, as I call them. You can mix their own way and who will follow or watch go your tracks in time. It’s up to you, is not it beautiful!

Every experience, no matter how bad it Seems,
holds within it a blessing or somekind.
The goal is to find it.
– Buddha

It is easy to see life as a gift if all you’re going to wind. But to see a setback or disappointment as gifts, dare to take it and to open it to see what you can get, you need a good dose of confidence out.
And when adversity than once – at whatever level – Open anyway gift you get this, there is always something beautiful in for yourself. If no one else I know how difficult it is and sit squeak in a corner on what goes wrong, but you realize that you are in a corner and really have a lot of it, make your glass half full rather than half empty. The gift that is in the unpleasant situation is not for nothing. Unpack it and unfold your new roads, new beautiful goals.

Do not dwell too much, because everything stands still in nature dies. So do not stop, but go ahead and grow with all your heart and receive small gifts, but also not great great gifts because you need them.

This week a small blog related to the time I found myself cramped planned, but next week a series of rich and wealthy are what is actually tips.

Thoughts are things

Maybe you know it, you wake up and have vague or strange thoughts that you’d rather not. Often negative thoughts and what can go wrong.

We are talking about fear and how you can hold in your grip. Personally, I kinda struggling right thoughts turn away and would often linger in, but why? Thoughts come and go and so we have I think to 60,000 a day.

I’ll be honest with you, because now I type this I am deeply grateful and I solved my own shit. They are not things that I wanted, but one thing is like a sore thumb, which I learned a lot from it. Without the mistakes I committed, I would not have had these lessons of life. I know that a negative mindset can not take further and knows just as well how difficult it is to find the button for a positive mindset.

Sometimes you do not know what to do and you feel like you’re stuck. It is a situation, but not a future, at least, if you are not stuck in. Personally, I can talk about it, you have no idea. Now I’m going to explain why it all has hit me and why I would like vertellen.Het be at night or that you get from a terrible dream for many people well known. For me it was so that I was still waking up with a very negative belief. A belief that I was not behind and very difficult to get out of my head. That conviction was merely a thought. I started to object against it, but it did just the opposite. Wake up with an idea that you can not get away was a fight almost five years for me. Every night again. And then sleep very badly.

How I overcame it is actually quite simple. After all kinds of people who say they have knowledge of myself I came to the conclusion that it is good. There no longer fight it and let it go. These are just thoughts. Then comes the execution, take it from me that it was not as easy as I thought. First wakes up and fed up, but gives no attention, that is not one time. Focus on something else when it was something beautiful, but those negative thoughts were overcome. It was also a form of fighting against it. And after nearly a year of experimenting, I came upon something even simpler manner.

You are one thing and let it go. It was long and needed a lot of perseverance, but I can say this method I’m on my nightly interruptions of negative thoughts, YEAH !!!

From that time my thoughts are things and not as an opinion from another that does not matter. It delivered me from the idea that your thoughts should check whether they need to keep in check, but that is a task that at least I do not know how and do not want to start. Letting go is not easy and just ready.

Today joined my heart and head, because of that. It was the step I had to take to move forward and especially to love yourself. Personally I compare it with a plane which is in heavy weather. Help yourself first into the situation before you can help others see safety of an aircraft.

Keep looking ahead and enjoy your life, because every day become a day shorter.