Set from small to big goals

Dreams, who does not? There will be people who do not have dreams or turn them into goals. People who do not understand great thinking and usually say it, but if you’re crazy enough, just do not understand and I recommend NOT to read this further.
 
In the title, I suggest that you can draw your dreams from small to big, but I do not really mean that. What I mean, start with something small to reach your bigger goal. Put your big goal at the tip of the horizon and work on it. In fact, this blog is about my insights and what I am now, because I’m not really losing anything about it. How are my dreams and the goals related to it, but also my mistakes?

The first steps
Ask yourself what you want polite if you’re on your death bed? How would you blow your last breath out? What is your ultimate dream? Do you know that, that’s beautiful? Write all about it and what do you need? Then write down as you would like to close your last day on this earth, make it credible to yourself, not for another. When you do this you read it everyday when you wake up and when you go to bed. Hang it up so you can see it everywhere, kind of reminder when you see it, so be sure to read. Program yourself and focus on it.

Now you are going to climb the mountain
Let me be very clear, the road upwards will not be easy and sometimes very heavy. Do not go to see how you start, but get started! You know what you need to get to your goal. Sometimes you do not know what’s needed, but you’re on the go, like training or people helping you reach your goal. Before that time you have small goals that help you reach the top. You do not need people who stop you or do not believe in what you do, they just hold on. Find people who also have a clear goal. Or maybe even a common goal.

You can not everything alone is my motto
You need people to learn or support you with what you do. Frankly, I’m also someone who always wants to try everything first. I always had the idea that nobody could help me, but by shame and shame you become wiser. And sometimes you also need that school to take a close look. And between us, I’ve been so often I’ve lost my mind. And from time to time, it’s still a learning moment!

When you’re on your way
The road upwards will unfold for you and the puzzle pieces fall into each other, if you’re focused and do not sit down. Everyone has a day off or it’s not going well. It will also apply to you, but if you really want what you want, you will achieve it as long as you believe it. You must feel every fiber in your body. When you’re on my way, I need more and I’ve already joined a large bank with investors. I made the mistake of not taking a lawyer. What I read at first in the contract did me like, but was put under pressure and had to expose me completely. Put my unique plan with an island on the table with all the stuff and nowadays! When it comes to legal advice, take a good mind with someone. You will encounter many things that you did not expect.

Write everything up
This may sound a bit dull, but I mean it. This man was also self-evident and did not write anything. I remember if it was best laconically below, what would be the added value? Consider the added value that you only understand when you write down everything. From ideas to accomplished goals and everything you’ve encountered. See it as an archive that may consult your children or grandchildren, but of course you too. There is a point that you know that you’ve come across before and what’s it like to read back on how you did it last time or you’ve written an idea and suddenly get out of nothing again than it’s best to write that too. The smallest one can write very important later, hence write down everything …

My walk to my goals so far
In the meanwhile, I had the opportunity to buy the island, but not done, because everything in me shouted NO !!! Then you have to wonder if you are on the right track. It will be my greatest dream to build my own island as I dreamed. With the aim of selling the island again later with everything on it. The latter did not come true later, because I realized that I did not get lucky of an island in itself. I want to cultivate it as I have figured it out. And then celebrate my 50th birthday there and jump between the island and Gran Canaria from that moment on. It is now for me 6 years to work hard to achieve it and to sell it to the top. I have become more entrepreneurial and have decided to emigrate. Burn the boats, because I do not want to get back. My desire has changed in the course of time. It’s because I’m on my way. Then change your plans and add them, but with the aim in the visor. I will be very honest that I still want a Tesla, but not now, because I want to use all the money to accomplish everything as quickly as possible. My health and its optimization now stand at number 1, because when you’re healthy you can do more and just do more, I’m the living proof of it. I have spent many days doing things that did not lead to my goal. That realization has not been as long as I dare to confess you. That’s why I’m leaving for a single trip in early 2018. I do not mention the date here, but it is clear. At the new place, I will keep you informed and I will write more about the road I’m driving. Also, the intention is to share my experiences as a speaker and a coach, because that is also a passion for me. Only I am convinced that it will only be a success until my 50th birthday. I notice that focus can only be continued. You must feel that before you move on.

Want to read more about this?
This is, of course, only the beginning. Want to know more about this? Then I have a few links / tips for you at the bottom of the blog. Do you want me to get deeper into what I’ve already encountered and where I stand, let me know. Also let us know how you would like to take it. For example, with a blog or just a video, but can also be a podcast, it’s up to you. I like to read how you want to receive it.

Thank you for reading this blog.

Greetings and hug, Jouke

Links / Tips:
Gary Vaynerchuk
Prince Ea
Richard Branson

Where does it all come from?

Sometimes I start writing and I do not know where it goes. It's quite strange, because it seems that everything goes so easy when I write business, almost without thought.


I want to leave my mind today today. The idea that you could write thoughtlessly is a fable for many people, but why can I do it and it just happens. By the way, it is not everyday or on command. You feel, at least. And yet I wonder where it comes from.


Sometimes you do not have to know everything
Where it comes from is probably my subconscious mind. Honestly, it is now a question of myself, but what about it now? I do not know is that bad? No I do not think so. It would just be nice if I know how to get that letter just coming up in me. You read it, it fascinates me. Just like i sometimes know things of people who only know them and have never shared with me at all. How can I know?

What then is the higher power?
The question you can attach to it is a religion or belief, but actually I am an atheist according to many people. And yet it is not entirely true, because everything is vibrant and in that way we are connected to each other or we are connected to each other if there is harmony. There is no God looking at it. And yet I'm sure there's more. You know, the law of attraction. I'm sure you can attract each other, but if there are any miracles that happen to me, I'm going too far. Attracting that I'm sure, because I've already attracted people who have been or have been important to me. It sounds a bit swollen, but I'm sincerely grateful every day. I look around and see what I have. And I also consider the things / things that I would like to have.

Have or greed
Now that I am thinking about this, I have something to do with my heart. Whoever reads my blogs knows that I have a chronic headache. And in addition, a bad build up of vitamin D. What do you get from headache, fatigue and then lack of vitamin D, not motivating, I can report you. And yet I motivate myself every day to take steps to make my dreams come true. Living in my own island and in Gran Canaria are my big goals. The last I start with in January 2018. Why? For the simple reason I always want to be charged and Gran Canaria is the ideal place. Not too hot and not too cold, almost always the same temperature. The island itself comes from a dream that I always had as a little child. We went a lot on weekends by boat to an island. I fantasized over it and often returned in the rest of my life. It became crazy when I found out that the island was still dreaming about. It got worse because the island was for sale for far too much money, in my perception. These two things have nothing to do with greed. It's because I want to live my ideal life, be happy with what I have, not just material.

And so you see that the demand has more load
The desire to live in Gran Canaria is enormous at this moment. The island also has a great desire, but not as big as Gran Canaria. I can say that when I first do the one, then the other one will get out of the paint. That's why I think so much of my desire.

Do you know what's crazy?
It just happens to me. And so I come from the beginning, where is it from? I really have no idea, but what's that great to see and to be who I want to be ...


Greetings and hug, Jouke

All the beautiful comes slowly

Everything is evident in our lives. Sometimes it's worth the wait and sometimes you ask yourself "is this?". I learn every day and know like no other that perception is different to everyone. Also when it comes to fast and slow business.

Where did I stay 5 years ago and where I am now. I can tell you a whole different person. More positively, some are more fun and others are not right. It will be different in 5 years. The world changes and we as human beings too, that's evident. Changes are good, even if you are not waiting for it. Slowly, too, you will find the changes you like, but the road does not have to be too bad.

Best to want a lot ...
When you want a lot or something that is even elusive to others, that might be hard work. I think it's the few ways you have to achieve what you want. Sit down on your chair as I did for a long time, you will not help. You may want a lot, but action is necessary. If you do not take action is the only question that can make yes to yourself "Do I really want this?" If you do not really want it, you will not take action. So best want a lot = ACTION!

How do you start?
This is really a question I get multiple times ...
Just start my answer. If you do not see that, how will you get into action? For the sake of clarity, I recognize this phase very well. Wanted a lot and I was not in action. When I got into action, the motivation was so far. And then the people who say to you that you can not and you are disturbed and have to do normal and have to go for a normal job. I've had them all, all those people are past and often I too, because if you started about people from the past, yes that was normal now, but that same kind of people also lived. There were even people locked up because they were foolish. Now we really have a lot more possibilities, but you have to run it and then start ...

If you have nothing
If you have nothing, then you have nothing. When you look around you see how much you already have. There is not much needed, live from abundance. I now look around and see a massive oak table, a dishwasher, leather sofa, television, media center, fridge and so I can continue for a while. Even if you have a cardboard box under a viaduct, you still have a cardboard box and clothes. From that point of view everything is possible. In fact, I think you need to get it better when there's a cold winter ahead.

Need or strong desire
If you do not have a strong desire, you need a need. The famous story known as Burn The Boats, is no way back. Can also help to get on. And stronger yet. I'm going to take a single trip in January 2018, a way back, but not earlier than what I want to achieve. Only then can I book a trip. My desire is strong enough, but because of too many incentives I will not save it here. I know that myself and know that I need to find an optimal environment with someone who knows me, but also wants to, so as extra a stick behind the door. And because I'm going to a place where you can not come back for a while, it's even more important to succeed.

I will take you on that adventure
I'm going to show why I'm going to pick this road. How do you get where you want to be? It's do, but I'm going to take you. Therefore, be sure to follow this blog because there are very beautiful and exciting moments. And you will see that all the beautiful is coming slowly.

Greetings and hug, Jouke

Life is a gift, unpack it

The beauty of life is that you can make yourself some of it, only you. And that’s why I want to share with you.

Everyone has their own perception of life with everything on it. That’s nice and it’s nice to each other you can support each other and talk about the wonders of life, as I call them. You can mix their own way and who will follow or watch go your tracks in time. It’s up to you, is not it beautiful!

Every experience, no matter how bad it Seems,
holds within it a blessing or somekind.
The goal is to find it.
– Buddha

It is easy to see life as a gift if all you’re going to wind. But to see a setback or disappointment as gifts, dare to take it and to open it to see what you can get, you need a good dose of confidence out.
And when adversity than once – at whatever level – Open anyway gift you get this, there is always something beautiful in for yourself. If no one else I know how difficult it is and sit squeak in a corner on what goes wrong, but you realize that you are in a corner and really have a lot of it, make your glass half full rather than half empty. The gift that is in the unpleasant situation is not for nothing. Unpack it and unfold your new roads, new beautiful goals.

Do not dwell too much, because everything stands still in nature dies. So do not stop, but go ahead and grow with all your heart and receive small gifts, but also not great great gifts because you need them.

This week a small blog related to the time I found myself cramped planned, but next week a series of rich and wealthy are what is actually tips.

Thoughts are things

Maybe you know it, you wake up and have vague or strange thoughts that you’d rather not. Often negative thoughts and what can go wrong.

We are talking about fear and how you can hold in your grip. Personally, I kinda struggling right thoughts turn away and would often linger in, but why? Thoughts come and go and so we have I think to 60,000 a day.

I’ll be honest with you, because now I type this I am deeply grateful and I solved my own shit. They are not things that I wanted, but one thing is like a sore thumb, which I learned a lot from it. Without the mistakes I committed, I would not have had these lessons of life. I know that a negative mindset can not take further and knows just as well how difficult it is to find the button for a positive mindset.

Sometimes you do not know what to do and you feel like you’re stuck. It is a situation, but not a future, at least, if you are not stuck in. Personally, I can talk about it, you have no idea. Now I’m going to explain why it all has hit me and why I would like vertellen.Het be at night or that you get from a terrible dream for many people well known. For me it was so that I was still waking up with a very negative belief. A belief that I was not behind and very difficult to get out of my head. That conviction was merely a thought. I started to object against it, but it did just the opposite. Wake up with an idea that you can not get away was a fight almost five years for me. Every night again. And then sleep very badly.

How I overcame it is actually quite simple. After all kinds of people who say they have knowledge of myself I came to the conclusion that it is good. There no longer fight it and let it go. These are just thoughts. Then comes the execution, take it from me that it was not as easy as I thought. First wakes up and fed up, but gives no attention, that is not one time. Focus on something else when it was something beautiful, but those negative thoughts were overcome. It was also a form of fighting against it. And after nearly a year of experimenting, I came upon something even simpler manner.

You are one thing and let it go. It was long and needed a lot of perseverance, but I can say this method I’m on my nightly interruptions of negative thoughts, YEAH !!!

From that time my thoughts are things and not as an opinion from another that does not matter. It delivered me from the idea that your thoughts should check whether they need to keep in check, but that is a task that at least I do not know how and do not want to start. Letting go is not easy and just ready.

Today joined my heart and head, because of that. It was the step I had to take to move forward and especially to love yourself. Personally I compare it with a plane which is in heavy weather. Help yourself first into the situation before you can help others see safety of an aircraft.

Keep looking ahead and enjoy your life, because every day become a day shorter.

I have to perform by myself

In the world where everything is fast and fast is often a competitive spirit out. After a little research I came across still something disturbing.

A week ago, I caught myself on the fact that I wanted to draw me in humans, but it actually was not. Started making mistakes and started walking on my toes, despite my passion and dedication work on something I really want. And therefore must perform myself, but is it useful?

Last Thursday I was in bed and felt strange, as if I had forgotten something. Every night when I lie, I enjoy after the beautiful day in bed which was given to me, like every night I did last Thursday too. And every time I tried to oppose the fact that I could not really enjoy and have my eyes were sent to the tablet that was on the nightstand. At one point I turned round, with his back to the tablet, but it had a strange power. After three still took the tablet and looked. I had put the wrong text online with all the mistakes still on my website. I must confess that these texts do not let me check, I walk himself regularly, because want this is what I am, I am, and you have to let anyone tinker with, even though it is full of errors.
Would not be better happen to me than I am (I did that long enough).

The competitive spirit that I have to myself is unprecedented height when I’m full of passion and thus surrender to a project or goal work. This means that it may be that I can go by 7:00 in the morning until 23:00 in the evening. And to think that I after I stopped two hours will have no TV or other display before my eyes, because I know that it brings me peace. So I can fall asleep and have a quiet night. This whole week has been offline and online preoccupied with looking at how I can put myself in the market, because I did not know at the time of writing. The goal is where this blog comes online is old news and I know it is good and people are going to ask me. I know what I do and I’m really very good at. Have proven more in the past. Of course you can come up with 1000 things to take out the poor me. I can tell you one thing that you might’m not convinced, but know that my intention is mega good intentions. I want to help people and make the world a better place.

Last week it was clear that my desire to perform again took its toll on me. Making mistakes and not get beyond had become a thing (work hard and do nothing). I had to perform my own, but performed badly below par. Too little rest and like underlies perform to my drive, but for whom? And after I had made myself some good questions showed that I wanted to feel REALLY useful to me. Ouch, that hurts! I did not see myself, but the questions even work on myself.

I imagine vulnerable, but are not vulnerable. Being vulnerable is my strength and the way to help. If you are not open you can not help my opinion. My mission is to help people, because that comes back every once in my life. And now there have been enough hints that this is my mission and should also go because it feels good and is very happy. If money would not be necessary, I would do it for nothing, but our society is asking for money. And I want you to know why my help has a price tag, because there was no money, I would have done so, but also my fixed costs must be paid every month, unfortunately. I wants to show that I’m not doing it for the money, but with the intention that I really wish to see the world become a better place and we can have a beautiful life together. And if this is my way to contribute to this, then I’ll do it for sure, because I like it and it’s good for our future.

What do I really need?

As a starting point I always had the dream to be filthy rich. A fallacy that everyone has and is often behind the rich are a different story.

A free and super fun life is the rationale for me, but is it just money? Being rich has a different meaning in recent years. For me it was the turnaround in 2006, because suddenly my life was suddenly like a flash over.

Splitting headache and I knew it was wrong lot. In retrospect it was, and I just everyday headaches. At that moment I really thought it was happening to me. though failing to undergo what I saw before me. I wanted to live deep inside me and listen to what I liked. I learned from that moment more than ever learned in school. Life is a gift and you need to enjoy.

Hard work is good, but enjoy is pretty important. Money is important, but if you are unhappy, what is the value of money, what is wealth? I’m not saying that money can not buy happiness or rich. It is deeper and more nuanced than only money. I know someone who is very rich, but super unhappy and sick. Is not that rich? I do not think so.

For a while back I had a dream in which I told myself what means rich. This dream I was an elf who told me what his realm according to the gnome, so meant to me in my own form. The gnome asked what I needed and I said a place where I can live and where I have the most energy. Okay said the leprechaun, what would you do if you’re a multimillionaire? And enjoy beautiful things with the money. What would you do with the money was the question of the gnome. Sure I had enough help to life and other people. The goblin looked at me and asked me what I thought needed to have fun in life. And explained that it comes to food and drink and maybe some clothes every week. After a while, think I said to the dwarf, about 500 to 600 euros per week. Okay said the gnome which is about 1.1 million euros, excluding fixed charges in your entire life. Now we get away from that you have no fixed costs, because we just do not know. You are a multimillionaire and have more, where are you going to spend it on, the extra money you earned? establish a fund and help people who are really hard, if it is needed. Otherwise I’m going to look up projects or start to use it well in my opinion.

I know there was more in my dream and can unfortunately not remember. What I do know is that it does make me think the next day, what do I really need? It occurred to me that it was not much. What I need is a place where I can live optimally and thus can function. The production of vitamin D is low compared to what it should be. And my headache is less. Only I have experience with Gran Canaria and feel at home there, so I would like to live there. I stopped right, because everything was in the future, but it will probably never happen. And began:

1. I live in Gran Canaria
2. I have my dream island
3. I earn money with what I like
4. I help what feels good (give back what I did not need)
5. And am the happiest person on earth

Now I’m just getting started with happy and cheerful. Of course, I have moments, but most happy and cheerful, YESS! The only way is up! And that is the first single that I bought my first pennies I had earned. That can not be a coincidence? Not a dream but a reality!

I am writing and my daughter has this week off from school and makes her corner all by itself clean and cleans up her belongings. And I realize that wealth in other cases is only in cash.

Live your dream, it can really

Many people have limited thinking and see many things as possible. Impossible is something only if it is proven that it can not.

I live every day with my dreams I have. Many responses were not nice result. In the beginning, did that hurt, but today I laugh everyone who thinks from limitations and trying to tell me that what I do is impossible. I spent that kind of people out of time.

What I dream is simple. I really want to convert my dreams into goals. An example of what I would also very much has to be that I want to have a villa in Gran Canaria. I’m going to visualize how it was going to see and then I’m going to see what homes are for sale stood out. Often what I visualize all matches with reality and print the pictures then and make a vision board. And I see as much and as often as possible every day. And visualize or that I’ve been there and walk around.

What has been true of my dreams?
It starts very simple, because I believed the first time and do not get me started a radio studio in the attic. I obtained and true. Our garden I wanted to have so as it is now, all visualized and realized. I have my dream garden!

And so I asked my ultimate dream / goal on an island. It your whole life dreaming of an island course, is not nothing. And see it as my ultimate dream. I want to show not only the island that anything you dream can become a reality, but also wants them again come true a dream. give villas and a luxurious appearance. You can buy a villa or rent, but also in the harbor with your boat. With a small shopping center where you can find restaurants, cafes and shops can be found to have an experience along with your people. There will also be a kind of center for development. There are studies and data in the remaining time can be used for parties. We want to make even a wedding location.

You read it, I live for it. Live your best life is my motto, because we are so short and it’s a shame to live the life of another. Do you have a dream, make it a goal and go for it! There is nothing as beautiful than from wealth or abundance in life.

Last year I had a dip and I noticed the same in everything I did. Nothing worked and everything burned me in the hands. It was weird, because I pulled me pretty what happened to my life. It turned out to be an expensive school that I had to undergo in order to move forward. Now I live again on growth and progress, because there is nothing more beautiful than in the here and now live with everything you own.
Also give yourself that opportunity, make your hobby your daily life, it can. Start by doing it alongside your everyday things, because as you can see if it is really what’s for you. And when it is working for a boss, do it. Not everyone needs to have an island
For some like yourself and do not let me or anybody tempted to do something you do not want. Do you want to earn my motto in this. Start dreaming and make sure you can say at the end of your life, “I’ve had a wonderful life and done everything I wanted to do,” because then your life is really successful!

A beautiful story

Every day, busy preparing my goal, every day, except any day. Lovely doing what I want.

 

Now two years working on the development of a plan how I can achieve what I want to achieve. The challenge is beautiful and like very heavy. I love to have a good workout and a lot of time to plan themselves. A year ago I started as a home dad and wanted to be next to my daily tasks to see how it can.
We are a year later and home dad is in the refrigerator, but why? Being busy is the best there is and when you can all focus on keeping certain. Home Dad was for me a commitment that I could not fulfill if I still wanted to do another next door. I stopped home dad if I was standing behind the method I developed for myself. I just wanted to entrepreneurs to get started and which reflect light at the end of the tunnel. And all my goals next I wanted to give attention. Pressure and at a certain moment nothing come out of your hands was kind of my daily ritual.

At one time I was there I wake up, on a night that is not my idea was and walked to my work and turn on the PC. I did something I had never done. I wrote on a notepad what I wanted and what I needed to make to achieve it. And wrote down what I could not help at that time to move forward. Everything I wrote I was going to support both positive and negative. After an hour of writing I knew. I stop what does not work and go for what I believe in. Home Daddy I believed in, but was bringing me where I wanted to go. At that time certainly did not and decided after because of what I wrote had to stop home dad.

Because I had another goal I wanted to run, but only for entrepreneurs. I was not nearly bright and worked among between a number of years. It did not know what I wanted, but then try another way. each time a step closer to my goal, but unable to get it done. I was just doing what I wanted without starting. Help entrepreneurs who are stuck in their company. There was for me what is necessary to take action now appeared a few weeks ago. I had been looking for a performer who speaks Greek and writes. And came to entrepreneurs who could help me possibly on the way. A business owner was busy and did not have time and wanted me not really speak to. I told his colleague that I only had one question and whether this colleague knew. My question was no longer, and less if they knew someone who could help me.

Coffee, suddenly was the question of the entrepreneur. I was somewhat surprised and said yes, fine. He had heard what was doing and asked if it was feasible, and so we started talking. At one time was the entrepreneur to tell me that he was busy and little time for his girlfriend and holding him like a millstone hanging around the neck. After asking a few questions, we said goodbye and have it released.

That same trader emailed me now about two weeks ago with a special story, he sold his company to his employees. Wow, what a nice email that. I have read the e-mail 100 times before I could believe what it said. Through a conversation with me in less than an hour the trader had received so many insights and so many opportunities given to see that he was doing what he wanted before he began his enterprise, freedom! Freedom and entrepreneurship are often seen as a starter as a kind of coming together. Only this entrepreneur had no freedom at all. He claims not even have time to get married, something he wanted to have long and happy. And a conversation that I thought would never come and where the operator actually no time has given me and the entrepreneur eye openers for. The entrepreneur is his business and only has an advisory role. He is married and has three months holiday for himself and his girlfriend planned.

What did it for me? A lot of new ideas and very often what was said to me, just now starting to agree with what you want. Today I started with what I like most, which help entrepreneurs just do not see light shining at the end of the tunnel. Unfortunately, the entrepreneur will not come into the picture, but this entrepreneur has said that I was the best thing that happened to him in his enterprise. Everything together and I am sure that this is my thing. There is simply no way back. My mission this time is to help people reach a hand to get clear again their mission.

There are several companies that I have helped in the past or still support couples with good questions. I have no answers, but you can ask questions and therefore you as a person and as an entrepreneur give new insights. My view is that good questions to help you better than any well-meaning advice whatsoever. The study is not over, but may begin talks with entrepreneurs.

Live your Dreams

These are just three words, “live your dreams”. Nice and easy said. but do it only once. And why live your dreams? Sometimes life is complicated enough. Is that too?

Umm no. That’s the beauty. Indeed, it is YOUR life. So you are at the helm. Only sometimes is not all that simple. What do you want, can be pushed into the background.

By all sorts of unconscious stimuli or experiences. Think about your family, your children, your education, friends, colleagues, but also your phone, your laptop, TV … All stimuli that can distract you from what you most want life. Sometimes you do not even notice. Then you do ‘just’ along with the crowd.
Until you wake up one day and think, huh, this does not feel right. You step out. Not only in bed but from the daily grind. You stand still and you decide to do it differently.

internal world
This happened to me. I suddenly asked myself: Who am I myself. And what do I myself. What I really want to live my life? Never really seriously considered. I rolled from one to another.
It turned out a whole quest. Not unscathed. My mission is to live in a way that suits me. Before I pursue my dreams. How they seem small or impossible.

Dreams are not just want to make great trips around the world. Dreams just too lies in those little moments or things that make you so happy. That particular times when you enjoy who you are intense where you are and who you are. This has been a dream in itself!