Question: Does your wife deserve more than you?

Before I set off and tell what is true and what is not, I first want to say something. I do not find women, men, race, and any other displays or orientation of interest. We are all the same inside, human!

By making myself vulnerable and saying that I am more or less an open book, this is a thing of the past. You are going to tell about how much is earned and I had to think about it. The choice itself is made quickly, but I have other people that I have to take into account. So I have to be somewhat superficial in this and if I mention numbers they are fictional and / or rounded. Furthermore, it is not that interesting what the real amounts are.

Maybe nice to know
Just to get home with the door ... No, I don't earn more than my wife (money). In fact, I earn little to nothing at the time of writing. I am a small self-employed person who does not have to pay VAT. And so my invoices also look a little different than the standard invoice. Although I am an entrepreneur, I do not earn much. More and part of that is due to the fact that I am not completely healthy. I've talked about that before and don't explain again.
As a result, I am now a family man and I have a number of hobbies (business) that keep me busy every day. The agreement is that I don't have to earn, but can earn. This gives me the freedom to arrange things that are good for our old age. I have liberties and can raise our child myself. I think the latter is especially important. In fact, we have reversed the tasks a bit old-fashioned. And we both like it fine. I have to tell you that sometimes it is difficult, because actually I would also like to generate more income. I just have to respect the situation. The environment apparently has some difficulty with that, but I am sorry about that!

How do you make ends meet?
That is a good question, but let me start that we are right, because we have no surcharges and other refunds. We completely make our own beans and that is fine. As little as possible government support. And honestly, you really want to stand on your own two feet? All that pumping around money is a shame. We do, however, keep our costs low. Not the largest internet package, no TV connection, no fixed telephone, not the latest mobile phones with expensive subscriptions and we are economical with gas, water and electricity. We have no debts with banks / government or a lease car. We rent a house and live sober for most people, even though we don't see it that way. Our life is focused on the future without not having lived today.

Don't you want to work?
Yes, but I would not just accept myself. I should be able to work at home when it suits me (due to circumstances) and have to deal with quite a few things that I now work out as a hobby and for the future. What I am doing now is really just preparing for the future, spreading the bed and making sure we can do fun things. Given my situation, I often have to force myself not to do more than I can. And although I don't have a job, I often take too much hay on my fork, because I don't want to be inferior to other people. I have to pay for it with almost nothing anymore. You have to see it as walking. if you can walk 1 kilometer, you should not go 1 kilometer from home, but 500 meters. It is the same with effort and I often go too far. And I have put a little hope in the loss that I do in the hospital every other week. With this I hope that my body recovers and I can work more like an employer for 24 to 32 hours a week. All in all, I am not sitting still now. This blog has now been picked up for the 3rd time, as this blog is due to appear in April. Only then did things come in between that I had not anticipated and which I cannot do much about. Now on the way up and even start an experiment on October 1.

What does your wife think?
Let me put it this way that I have more trouble with this situation than they do. She knows what I am doing and knows what is going on and that gives me a lot of peace. My wife does, of course, like this. Only as I described above do I have more difficulty with the situation than my wife. My wife knows everything about me and therefore also how I feel about life. Everything in terms of health she can see more or less through her work. And the numbers that go with it give a picture of me. Let me put it this way that there are people with the same values ​​who do little to really nothing anymore. For her, it is therefore not an issue that I am a houseman and just go my way. On the contrary, she likes it and she sees what I do. My wife naturally prefers me to be healthy and work, but not just because there is more income, but when I work it means that I am a lot healthier. And she finds that much more important than what people think of it. You do not see it on the outside, but when you add certain things together she just knows that I do pretty well considering my health / circumstances. She thinks I should do what I like and be busy when possible, for myself and our family, because she finds that more important than everything around it.

We deserve the same
This sounds crazy and maybe weird after what you've read above. Earning is something else than actually getting it. With the knowledge I have I can earn just as much or even more than my wife. Only that is not the case for us. In my view, my wife still deserves too little in healthcare as a clinical chemical analyst. The work she does is really undervalued. The collective bargaining negotiations have stalled (amazing!) And are being discontinued a lot in healthcare. They want 5%, but actually it should be 37%, but all this aside. My wife deserves better and we don't have it bad. And our future just looks good. We live today and together take care of tomorrow :-)

Thank you for reading!

Have a very nice summer and I look forward to the beautiful things we have in mind. Live your life and enjoy every moment, because we do that without pointing to other people or having an opinion about them, let each other's value and make something beautiful out of your own life! :-)

Love
Jouke

I'm going to do an experiment

Recently I am experiencing (a lot of) stress from a number of things and people. That is unhealthy and I do not need things that cause me stress. It may be that people will not like me, but that will only cause me a lot of stress in the beginning and then just rest, little or no stress should the outcome be.

Seems so simple, but I wonder if it works that way. Just very honest! The car broke down and had to go to the garage. That brings stress with it, because the car is broken and if you really need it it is annoying. You don't get that kind of stress from underneath. Yet I want to take you into my world from October 1 this year.

What does it mean?
The most intense thing is that I am going to say goodbye to people who give me daily / weekly stress. That also means that negative people are part of that. I will also remove things that are incompatible with me from my life. On the other hand, I am going to state that I am going to do a lot more fun things that really matter. Not to fill other things, but to broaden my knowledge and to be among people who are positive about life. I cannot prevent things from happening to life, but I can ensure that I make good choices that matter to me and my family.

How am I going to do it?
Something I still have to do, but what I want to do at the start of my experiment is to have certain values ​​determined. To see if stress and negative factors affect our body. And not poison myself with alcohol or other things that could cause it to affect my body. From 1 October I will remove external factors in the first week and ensure that it can only be my fault if I experience stress. I will also reinstall my computer and empty / reinstall my phone. Twitter, Facebook and Instagram will be a tough one, but definitely do it. I am going to devote myself to my love, music, Kim, Sjoukje and pave the way to spend the winter outside the Netherlands. This can all help to become even more stress-free, because that is my goal. I am also going to open more channels to generate income. And maybe even look around for a nice job that suits me and gives me pleasure. If you have something nice / know, let me know!

The target
What is the idea behind this? I can well imagine that you don't understand it or find it soft to say the least. I understand that and that has to do with the world in which we now live. Everyone is in a hurry and almost never has time and everything has to be done. Stress is a factor that plays a role in many diseases. Stress is a disease maker and the result is now that 1 in 7 people is taking medication that is directly or indirectly related to stress. burnout / depression. I see a lot and listen a lot to what could be improved and feel called to set (if necessary) as an example. I wish everyone who wants a stress-free existence and a happy life. Only in order to be able to add to that strength do I first have to deal with myself and do this experiment. In the first instance it is also for myself and I hope that I will succeed in my goal, because then I want to substantiate it. In this case, supporting me seems only possible when you have done it and the facts are there. Not only my story, but also results will have to confirm it. With the goal in hand, I want to look at my own future and perhaps mean something to society. What that will look like further is something for later, if it is awarded to me. A bit of awareness and finding what I am looking for, my own deep me. Why things run like they do, but also where does repetition come from and illnesses. I have an idea about it now, but is that true? My goal is not just the results. Confirmation for both sides. Then I can make choices again.

The intention that I have
I see the use of medication in the world increasing and people getting sicker with all kinds of prosperity diseases. We would all be fine and not stressed if you can believe everything! I see differently, but is that my perception or is it really so? I want to find out and start with myself, because everything is in me! Beliefs, faith, trust, secrets, goals, sadness, love and perhaps also a bit of uncertainty. Always looking for the truth and in this case stress reduction is sort of the thing that makes up my life. Undergoing this fun and yet not knowing what the outcome will really be I expose myself to myself. In addition, the intention is to be less ill, because stress, as I indicated earlier, is disease maker number 1. Your body really reacts like stress to stress. No wonder many people get sick in stressful jobs and due to circumstances. Employers such as hospitals should be more for their people in the workplace. Disease in the Netherlands is common in government such as the police and indirectly in healthcare. With the intention that I have, I also want to see if what I think is actually the case or if there are other factors why our society is so rotten. We have to do more and more together and less and less. Statements and what I think have been on a scales in recent years, I don't think that's healthy. The question is that I ask myself "should I look for a conspiracy behind this?". Why does what happens in the world happen? Just look at money and crisis, made and deployed by people. And in my intention to be white in the world I try to live my dreams and goals, because I am only here for a moment. When I am no longer there that it can be said "Jouke has been doing well even though other people did not see it!". And this is not an uncertainty, but daring to be open to things that people encounter and therefore experience stress that would not have been necessary. Being aware of my life is the biggest challenge, I think!

More about the details later
I will now first find out what I need to live a stress-free life and what I do and don't need for it. I do not want to go over 1 night of ice cream and certainly do not make mistakes that could have been avoided. I get more and more motivation to get started, because let's be honest, don't we all want a stressless and happy life? I hope that I can make sure that everything becomes clear in my own way and go for it.

Are there people who can help me or want to participate?
If you can mean something to me in a stress-free way, I would love to hear from you!

Thank you for reading!
And this will certainly get a sequel to this blog channel.

Jouke

Make money with Internet and Google

Something that is not widely shared on the internet is what you can earn with it. And the videos or blogs that you find are often not completely complete or at least do not tell the truth.

In this blog I want to take you into what you can do on the internet to make money in a simple way. I do say right away that it is simply not that you put something online and you are ready, because it is quite a job to earn something. To earn nice, it is therefore important that you have some time, especially in the beginning. Let me just take you into the possibilities and give a good explanation.

Drop shopping
This is a type of resale of goods. You create a shop online and you pick up goods from China that you can simply have them forwarded to your customer. Simple and fairly easy you would say. You only keep the return products and you have your obligations to the seller and the buyer. In addition, a product such as clothing is really not recommended, because a lot is sent back and the Chinese are generally somewhat smaller than the average Dutch person. Drop shipping can be good and seems easy money, but then you have to think in advance what you want to sell, because you don't want to be left with return items. Still, I don't recommend dropping, because it can be a relatively good way to make good money.
What you need is a domain name, many dropshippers use Shopify as a store and advertise to promote your store. I myself have thought about doing this, but for the sake of honesty I must confess that I cannot appreciate this way of selling. This is of course my idea about it and knows that there are many people who make good money with it, but also stories that are too good to be true! If you like a challenge and you dare to invest, you can already generate your first income in a few days.

YouTube
You know them the Vloggers and YouTubers who make money with YouTube, but what exactly is that? It's about the amount of viewers watching your videos. Rule is about per 1000 views you get around 1 euro. So subscribing is fun, but you don't earn anything on YouTube with that. When you are a bit taller on YouTube, a network is recommended, because they arrange many things for you. Only as a "small" YouTuber can you do a lot yourself, because a network naturally also holds a commission about what you deserve. Usually around 15%. Earning therefore only becomes fun when you have a lot of viewers and you know how to keep them entertained. This is not that simple yet, but you can, for example, play live or make vlogs. When you are a bit larger YouTuber, you often get campaigns through your network, which usually earns more than the ads on YouTube. YouTube (part of Google) is also a bit of a discrepancy among YouTubers, because advertising is often blocked by YouTube (invalidated (from money)). This has been going on for a while and that's why more and more YouTubers use campaigns or you can become a member of them. Donations can also be part of this. The latter is controversial and is questioned by many people, because often minors would donate. Personally, I think the truth is in the middle and donation can only be used to enlarge and improve your channel. Larger channels should (I think) find other ways to earn money to pay for their daily lives, such as becoming interesting for campaigns. YouTube is fun, but requires a long breath and a lot of creativity.

Instagram
I have to admit that I don't have much experience with this, but what I do know I can share with you. Here, too, campaigns are the source of income. The bigger you are the more you can earn. I have sometimes been told that it can be up to 20,000 euros per campaign with large Instagramers. But how do you really grow up? Not recommended, because you really fall into the basket is to buy followers. Getting followers in an honest way is the best way. And if you can link a product or service to it, that's a way to make money. It is therefore also the long haul and many real followers.

Blogger
What you are reading now is a blog and that is possible with Blogger. Blogger is part of Google and you can add Google Adsense to it and write a lot of interesting blogs about what you want to talk about. If you get a lot of readers and you have ads on, it can be a nice pocket cent, but again, long-term and unique will reward you. Writing a blog is relatively easy and when it comes to something that you have a passion for, it becomes even easier and you also touch people. When writing a blog it is true that you have to create a target group that you want to bind to you. For example, you can write about your dog or cat, but also about holidays, you can make it as crazy as you want! Here too, you get approximately one euro per 1000 views. This has to do with the fact that Google is also the owner. From my own experience I can tell that Adsense and Blogger both (despite both from Google) do not always agree on the views. With blogger I often have more views than indicated with Adsense. And communication with Google is pretty difficult. Blogger is nevertheless my favorite when it comes to writing and it is somewhat anonymous if you wish. I started blogging because I was scared of writing and had not really done my best at school (I have the stamp dyslexia). I wanted to write and for me the content is not about whether everything is written perfectly. Blogging is therefore my favorite.

Online store
Starting your own store online is also possible. You create products or offer services is the way to generate income. Make sure that you come across as reliable and that everything is in perfect order, because that is how you bind customers. You can sell chains and make them yourself, but you can also do resale. You buy me something from the wholesaler and therefore resell it. A good example of this is bol.com. You can do it in small pieces and give it your own unique twist. The margin and what you earn with this depends on what you sell and is very different. The web shop would generally do nothing about this. I have had it and am currently considering starting a webshop again. Maybe I'll make a report of it. All in all recommended and you can earn good money with it.

Affiliate
This is how it works on Wikipedia: Affiliate marketing is a form of internet marketing in which advertisers reward their partners (affiliates) for the generated sales or leads (such as memberships - subscriptions) that the affiliate has supplied.
Already busy since 2003 and deepened and worked in several niches. It is a nice extra if you have the time and you want to earn money with it. Making money is relatively easy and can spread advertisements for companies through networks and get a commission on every real sale. Still hot at the moment and I have the impression that it is leaving its infancy. The chaff is separated from the corn. Here too, competition is fierce and not always pleasant. You have to pay attention and work hard, but the result is there ... You can earn money per click, sale or impression. from 1 cent per click to 10% per sale / sale. Don't count yourself rich, because you have to build up awareness. An advantage is that you can do it with a website or on social media, but you can also recommend a product in a blog. There is quite a lot possible with affiliate marketing. I still do it because I like it and should really do a bit better, because this means that the money is on the street, because you have no products that you have to buy / sell and everything is with the seller that you promotes. The business model is simple and with a little time investing every day you can quickly earn some cream on your ice cream.

There are several earnings models
I have now named a few, but there are many ways to make money over the internet. Do you want to know more or do you want me to highlight 1, let me know, because making money online is a great way to provide yourself with income. You can do it in addition to your job or study and there is no boss that you can blame if things are not going well. You are in control yourself and for me that is the way I want to live. How are you doing?

Thank you for reading!

Jouke

Nothing at all anymore...

Last weeks / months I am busy again with a lot of things about news and politics, I am concerned about that. In this blog I therefore want to talk about letting go and not having to do anything.

You probably know it, something happens and it affects you. You want to give an opinion about it right away or are in any case quite shocked. It touched you and it keeps you busy. That is what has been going on in my head lately too. Being busy with things that cannot change immediately or may not even want to change. Today I want to let my thoughts go about that and make a statement right away.

Love yourself
Well I have been saying it for a long time and I understand, but did I love myself or am I sabotaging myself? That question keeps me busy. And when I go back to what I stand for, it is a mystery to me why I am concerned with matters that I cannot change. Being a little more kind to myself and letting another be a mirror to myself. The latter sounds strange, but what you think of someone else is what you often (not always) think of yourself. I have few opinions about other people, but sometimes it happens to me, no idea why, because I find it very bad to have an opinion about other people. I thought I had taught myself that you should be kind to yourself and others, but in practice, well!

I want to be real
Just calling is not enough, because words don't do much! In my experience I am quite real and I am quite vulnerable. You can read that in my previous blog how I tell 1 and others about my health and that I really don't know anymore. Is it real, yes in my experience that is all real, but am I really real? I don't know, but what I do know is that I tell it as sincerely and as honestly as possible. It makes me vulnerable and strong at the same time, because being vulnerable is not about being hit. You can have your opinion about me, well indeed! Nothing wrong with that, because it belongs to you. By wanting, I think I am not really real. I therefore let go of it and embark on a path that will make a lot of people think, but I will let everything go.

Create content and need help
I like to make content about what I like. And yet not copy other people. I find that difficult and at the same time a challenge. Showing me on the internet and in real life is what I have to make an effort for, but if I don't, I can't do what I really enjoy doing, telling my story and helping people find themselves. I have taken a first step by doing an interview for the series that I think deserves more than what it gets now. I like to make time for that and I like to help. JailTime is a series about prisoners and victims and in the last episode "Promise is guilty" I took on the presentation to interview the presenter himself. Take a look for yourself ... A really nice series ...
I notice that it is exciting outside as well. I have also been thinking for years about doing a podcast or something similar about what appeals to me and I think a large audience is only alone. The question we can ask each other and what we often hear on birthdays is, what are our concerns? You can change your mind about that and I think you can get nice conversations about it without being forced to start a conversation. So who wants and it seems fun? Let me know!

Take time for myself
I am home a lot and you would say plenty of time and a lot of time for myself. Unfortunately that is not the case. That's why I'm going to try not to have anything at all. The fact is that diabetes is currently being talked to me and I am not in favor of a diagnosis based solely on blood values, an important part but not a decisive factor. I understand that everything is interconnected and that there can be a lot more. And instead of suppressing, I want to heal. And I know that I am healthy and a happy person. costs what it costs sticking a label on me I don't like, but also don't suit me. I am in favor of investigations in order and excluding or actually located, not in between. And that is happening right now. That is also the reason that I have not told everyone yet, because I believe when I say I am sick and have diabetes, then all my cells say "come together". And that's what I fit for. I'm going to do whatever I want. Taking time and rest and being myself, because I don't do that enough and sometimes I really forget myself and therefore also the family and friends that I love. No more struggle, but working from the power of love and mutual respect. I want to live without judgment, difficult but not impossible. By taking a rest I hope to find my way back. Being busy with things that I find really important. That may mean that I am less online and even completely offline. Just connect / connect with myself. I am therefore also going to set up my PC so that it gets a different place within our house. I want to use more paper and less online.

Love what is
You can love in many ways and for me it must come from within and feel it, not think. You feel love in your whole body and thinking is in your head. And I find that having no love when it comes to mind. I want to press a reset button within myself that makes everyone equal from the thought of intense love. No, I'm not going to kiss everyone on the street, but more :-) and greetings. It seems a nice challenge to me after the peace has returned.

Distractions
I have actually been working on this for 4 hours now, but in the meantime I notice that I am distracted by side issues and cost a lot of time. Example: wanted to place a link and saw something and the same and strayed completely. Calling myself to order almost didn't work. Another example: I received a text about the start of the CAO Hospitals, I now know the principles of both parties. All distractions that indicate that there is no peace in my head and go from hot to her. This is THE reason to take a step on the spot and get busy with nothing at all ...

Thank you for reading 💗

Fighting a losing battle

I sometimes watch non-dual videos and read a lot about them. All that energy is there I am, but other things are a thing for me. In this blog I want to take you into my thought.

We have many forms of faith and actually do not know much. And I am someone who looks up when I want to understand something. For a year or 3 I came across a non-duality video of Patrick Kicken. Interesting that you can think like that and throw everything in one hope to say it all. Sit on the couch, because you have no control over your life (was my first thought). Actually they say "it is as it is".

I will fall right in the house with the door
I am not of the hovering life and I want to keep my feet on the ground. Yet it appealed to me, because it means briefly that your ego thinks it has something to say (like most men at home), but actually that is not so non-duality. After listening to the story, I started researching and I immediately noticed something. You can use it or do nothing with it. There is really nothing in between. And to be honest, I did not really see myself in the picture of non-duality. But...
I got chronic headaches in 2006 and it seems like nothing is allowed. A kind of fighting against the beer quay. So I found a reason in non-duality. Work hard, be enterprising, want to move forward, but feel no movement, at least not enough in my opinion. Is this then my lot then the question? No! because I believe that when you turn the steering wheel on the highway and take people into a serious accident that you do not have to leave their "lives".

Heavy costs.
I think about this kind of thing and let my thought go over it. My simple conclusion is that both worlds can be called for. And that energy (vibration) that we are 1 in is scientifically proven. Everything that lives has a vibration, but a kind of Matrix. You have no influence with your ego, even if we think so.

But what do I think?
I do not believe in a God or Alla, because believing brings nothing good and people who believe otherwise or are not bad. That's where I'm already wrong about faith. It would be peaceful and that is simply not true. And then to think that you can read and interpret the writing as you want it. Faith in a religion is fine, but do not bother me with it. Respect each other as you are and whoever that person is, does not matter! Live and let live. I believe in love and that does not make me judgmental about other people or what someone else is or does. It does not matter to me at all. What really matters to me is what touches people. Governments, money, power and religion. Not one of these has proven reliable to me. For the rest, you really have to do your best to ruin it with me. Everyone can be, but peacefully to each other. Personally I trust that I have to do everything myself, even though it sometimes seems to fight for a very big beer quay ...

Thank you for reading!

Jouke

Just catch up and let my thought go

You can not open a page on the internet or it is about the climate. So more about that, but first something else that I really want to talk to you about.

I have not been writing for a while and that has several reasons. I am busy in and around the house and spend more time on myself instead of online. This gives me peace and has also put certain things in a different light. Here and there I have adjusted or refined my opinion. It is also an honor to occasionally let my thoughts go on certain matters.

What I am doing a lot about
I will be honest with you right away. We have the idea to build a house without gas, electricity and water (the latter is still a doubt). We think it's wonderful not to have to pay more to the (r) government in addition to consumption costs. I was a bit scared of what consumption costs and what we do afterwards with tax and ODE (Storage Sustainable Energy). More than half is therefore from the government and we do not think we can do that anymore. This has let us make a calculation with costs and benefits. We pay about 2100 euros in 2019 on gas and electricity. A quick calculation means that we can use those 2100 euros for something else. Okay, you have an investment, but if you do not have a connection and you can do it yourself (which I can), you can earn the whole back in 3 years. We will charge a depreciation of 25 to 30 and a replacement of the inverter after 15 years. All in all, we are working on this further and are looking for a piece of land that can be freely cultivated. Tips are always welcome! We call this project aging without project obligations. Is of course not entirely true, but as few as possible obligations. I am also working on a new bar back house (I can get used to building our house). This must be ready by the end of May and will be nice for private use. I also work on several plans that I can not yet say much about, but that they are great fun.

Let's go on ...
The people who believe in climate craziness. For a while now I am busy collecting facts via the Internet and from reliable sources. I can tell you that it is much worse than Thierry Baudet proclaims. Watched videos and graphs and read a lot about them, but this craziness is only about one thing .... MONEY and POWER. Before I go any further, I want to tell you that we as a human being really make a mess of it on our beautiful earth. I do not deny that we do things that can not be controlled. I'm not here to convince you and put all the evidence here. If you want to know more I would find out how it really works. Global warming is a cycle like a small ice age until the end of the 1800's. So it is a wave movement. At the North Pole trees come under the snow and ice that tell a lot about their lives. This shows that it is the life cycle of mother earth. The scare about that we are here under water for a while is so to refer to the fabled newspaper, but also CO2 is not only bad. There are evidence from satellites that show that the earth is getting greener. CO2 is therefore not only bad in too large quantities. This is not a denial or distortion of facts as many people do. Just thinking of many other things that have been made us believe, but have not become facts yet. You can check me on this when I get it wrong. We do have to stop with plastic and that kind of mess, but we do not have to invest billions in homes and the like. However, I am investing in development, because there were the number 1 in the world and now we are not even in the top 10. Let's not do with each other backward and give children a reason to have free from school, because they only put themselves before l * l. Look at opportunities and or develop so that we are no longer dependent on supplies that can be taxed by the government.

Now I have time!
I always have time or make time if I consider it necessary. Now I am not fit and have a good grip on myself. I would not go for a work week and have myself pushed myself back to the facts the last few days. Even typing does not feel fine (deaf fingers that just seem to be sleeping). But also the streets and the building have taken their toll. My left arm is now overloaded and can hardly hold a glass, but because of the effort also for 3 days headache. This is not a complaint but to point out to myself that when you can walk 100 meters you have to walk back at 50 meters (just as a visual and understandable example). In addition, I have to deal with the flu. A nice combination ... Still, we are going to stay busy and I always have something to do. I can not sit still. Developing plans and reading a lot and getting to know what I think is important. Making time for others is going to slow down the upcoming time, because it wants to achieve things. Becoming more visible and yet picking up my book "an" ordinary "boy". Seems a bit vague, but when you read the book you will understand it completely. When the book comes out I do not know yet, but I first wanted more than 200 pages and I dropped that requirement. I can see how many pages it becomes.

Already 46 days ...
Today already 46 days on the detox, just like last year. Slightly less intense, but well busy. I fall off and do not drink alcohol. I have deliberately chosen not to hang it on the big clock, but I'm not finished yet, because the target is 100 days. Furthermore, I do not know how much I'm going to tell you about this, but I got inside and therefore worth a little mention :-)

I look forward to the summer
Actually, in the winter I have to go to a sunny / warm country in connection with my health, but I do not have much work yet that I can stay in the winter, preferably on Gran Canaria. I can do online work anywhere online and I can come back for it. There are plenty of options. Now I only have to use them for a while.


Questions I get:
1. Are you still ICTer? - Yes, I am also ICTer and help with payment with websites and everything that has to do with ICT (am available and costs 69 euros per hour).
2. Why do you not have a job? - Good question that I have answered many times more often. I have a form of cluster headache that is chronic. It is not a cluster headache, but according to the most people who have studied me, comes closest. In the end, it comes down to the fact that in my brain I have something that can actually be removed surgically, but the chance of success and that I get out right again is about 20%. Having worked with a headache and / or with fatigue? Then you know how I feel regularly.
3. Why do not you make videos anymore? - I do not like myself very well and want to do something good, but I do feel that I should have continued. In this I have allowed myself to be influenced too much by idiots. Regret? No! but could have done otherwise. Maybe in the future again?
4. How do you provide for yourself in maintenance? - This is quite a personal question, but it will be fair! My partner Sjoukje has a good permanent job and she has indicated to me that I can and must not. I can undertake or work things, but I do not have to. She knows very well how I feel and thinks that what I want to do must also be able to do. Total freedom, but in my mind I am still a bit old-fashioned.

Hopefully you are a little wiser about me again and would like to thank you for reading this blog. Also read the other blogs.



Jouke 💗

Everything to make money

Until recently, I really did everything to make money, but whether that was the way? I like to help people and am often happy with a happy face, but the stove can not burn ...

I want to take you into a part of earning and not earning anything and what it has brought me over the years. Why I write this is more about people who really want to make money and are only focused on showing that this does not work. It also shows a piece of my own "money" kitchen and what my learning moments were and things I never do again.

To begin...
Most people make money through an employer who pays them per week, 4 weeks or per month. That is a system that you can rely on and on which you are generally also socially good. So there is nothing wrong with working for someone as an employee. Only I am stubborn and like to work for myself and like to lend myself. Only then will an accumulation of things happen that I could never have foreseen and was therefore not insured for it. In 1999-2006, my health was a tragedy, because I fell from one to the other and with a bang in 2006 a huge headache that is equal to cluster headache (I was told). It was so bad that I wanted to hit the walls with my head. Luckily I do not have that anymore, but the headache is still there and I'm looking for ways to soften it or even make it disappear. I believe that there will come a time when I will no longer suffer from it and it will not affect my daily life.

I had and have a business
After 1999 I started to do a lot from the point of view that I want to make people happy and not to look at what I deserved. In time, I have experienced how many people you suddenly find, because yes, Jouke does it almost free. I noticed that I often could not say no and also the Yes man, because saying no was not in my system. So I did not deserve anything and really worked 2 rounds in the round. For almost 5 years ago I realize that only really, because I almost fell into the same pattern again. I sat at a bar owner and wanted to have a number of things arranged, but never sent an invoice because I felt stressed. It is of course bull-shit and really does not make sense, because I also have to pay for my food and drinks. Then there was a quarter that really arrived very hard. I was sabotaging myself, because I wanted to be among the people again and to be liked, at least ... that's what I thought. I started asking money and it became very quiet. Besides my affiliate programs, I did not do much anymore. I had stopped after a while with many things that did not work or cost too much time and yielded little or little. And then I started to tackle everything to make money. And for the sake of honesty, that is the most stupid thing I've ever done business wise, because I wanted to make money, but I did not deserve anything. I now realize that I am very vulnerable and nonsensical reactions like "then you are looking for a job" or "make yourself really useful", that is the society we live in. I will help you out of the dream right away, because who wants to have someone who gets random heavy headaches and is not allowed to burden his left hand? If you know someone who accepts me with all the risks, let me know !!!

After these learning moments
I only work for a rate and I do not have to earn more if necessary. I have created a simple website and that is what I do, no more and no less. This is because I only wanted to earn money and I turned it around. Who wants me has to pay for it. It makes me powerful and I know that my intentions are still very well intentioned, but free is removed from my system and I do not discount. My motto in this is "what you see is what you get". I cost so much and am more than worth it, no doubt about it. And this is the power that works great for me, because I do not have to make money, but I can make money. The intention is still to make people happy or to teach something and not to make friends or to plea.

What do I want to give you?
Money is important and we can not do without, unfortunately ...
Yet it is true that when she always focuses on money, you will see that it only gets less and will bring you down in a spiral. Do things that you like and put a real amount in front of them. You have to believe in the amount and the people want you to have that amount. It is that simple. Earn with your passion and focus on it, because focus on money does not bring money into the well-known magazine. be proud of what you do and be the best.

Worth the effort

You do not have to hire me or an expensive coach. You can just start by figuring out for yourself what you want, but without thinking about it being impossible and even impossible. That is often something that the environment and you yourself love for you. Usually there are several roads that lead to Rome. With restrictive thoughts you do not get there, but you probably do not need advice in your environment. But disc on what you would do if anything is possible and look at your possibilities from that perspective. And do not come out yet, please call or email me! Asking questions is and remains free, but only when I see that you want something different. I usually respond within 24 hours. Make sure you are worth it for yourself :-)

Thank you for reading!

Jouke

What is needed to make you realize .... THAT !!!

And now you must hold your mouth once and listen carefully to what I have to say. Do you know what the reason is? A nice but sad interview and a death ...

I tell you that life only passes once and there is no break or you can do it over. Often something has to happen before you get it or maybe you never get it. I read an interview with the tears in my eyes and realize that what I am saying must become clearer, because we are throwing our lives together and do not do what we REALLY want. It makes me sad and at the same time very angry.

Do not be sad and angry
It always happens to me a little bit and knowing that I can not change much I sometimes have moments that give me impotence and really want to give everyone a bang with the message
"WAKE UP AND GO REAL LIFE" And 2 to 3 minutes later it also disappears, because I know it is not going to happen and I realize that with my micro blog I can reach people and maybe one can persuade me to really live. Then I have already succeeded. It seldom happens to me that I become sad or even have to keep a tear. Only when you realize that it can be finished any time and we are not all 100 years young, is there something that touches me. People that I have to bring away too soon. And then I realize that I can squeeze myself into my hands, because both my parents live. The loss of a loved one or another neighbor is always intense and often puts you in your place for a short time, but why not put it in your place forever. Not in grief or loss, but from celebrating life, every day that you may be there, yes ... I am sad sometimes, but know that my time comes once. Let me tell you that I go for the 100, but every day is taken away that I really live.

Every day is a gift
Only realizing that would open the eyes of most people, because every day is a present. And do you want to take me into my daily routine, because society also expects something from me, even though I'm not waiting for that society. The society should be there for you instead of. vice versa. I think society is pretty sick on many fronts.

What I do to live ...
I live from day to day and therefore live now and make sure that tomorrow is a bit more beautiful. Not after my 67th, but right now, every day a little better. It starts with life at home. I do not brush every day and spend a lot of time outside. I have built a Hawaii Barret back house in the time that I was not doing well. It was rotten and I broke down in October of 2018. Now the goal is to have a new one for our birthday, but also the back of the house completely refurbished so that we can enjoy it again. That is a goal that I keep in mind every day. My goal is also to spend 3 months per year on Gran Canaria. I do not know yet how I'm going to do this finacial and with my family, I only know that I'm going to do it, because I have to. I let go all my dreams to be able to achieve that. Sitting at my own bar at home and enjoying Gran Canaria in the winter, I'm really looking forward to it. Also in Gran Canaria I can work in the 3 months, because my work is a lot online and when I can tell my personal story in the Netherlands I certainly do that, because this has to be told together with my message.

I tell my story
Actually, I want to make the world a bit nicer and better. And at the same time tell me which way I have walked to tell now what my story is. Personal and business have walked paths that are not only fun to listen to, but also carry a message with them. With the low point in my story, 2006 was the year in which a lot changed for me. Do you want to know more? Then look at my website: www.joukeharder.nl (dutch).

Thank you for reading!

Jouke

People no longer think clearly

PAY ATTENTION!!! This is written from the Dutch idea. It is large and partly about the Netherlands.

I look around and see things happen that I think, huh? Not for one or the other, but people have totally gone mad in my experience. Conversely, too!

More often I am talking about the rat race and why people do not live. Lately, I have paid a lot of attention to it, because it really fascinates me why people are tormenting themselves. And why is it actually? What is happening to people that makes it happen. Here my unsolved opinion and thoughts.

All crazy!
Our system is built in such a way that you have to work for your money and then you can donate a part to the tax and your fixed costs. Actually a good business model if you look at it from a distance. You ensure that people have to work for their money and then they will charge tax on it, but also about the goods that they can buy from that money. If you think about it like that, it is actually a crazy system. What is much crazier and what I do not understand, because it is really crazy that when you have paid for something has to pay again in the form of taxes. And we are all involved, including myself! Just realized that if you work 10 hours that you work well for someone else for the first 3 hours. I can still understand that, but you buy a car, clothes, household goods, food and drinks and you name it. then there are taxes, taxes and if you smoke or refuel. So at the end of the month you have (depending on your situation) between 65 and 85% spent on taxes and what more flows back to the government. So from every 100 euros you earn grossly between 65 and 85 euros away to the government.

Yes, but Jouke ...
Yes, I know ... We get a lot in return! Good roads, good care, good assistance, good wao, aow, ww, sickness law and I know a little more. That's true! Only it will only get crazier and only a cigar from their own box. Less wage tax, but paying more for health care, gas, municipality and much more. At the end of the decision again less at the end of the month. Jouke stop doom thinking and look at it from the positive side, because you are such a positive guest? Yes I am positive and do not think doom! I look at the world realistically and see things happen that are often pushed through our throats with a lie. Climate, Taxation, European Union, Patronizing and forget a few. Because we live like that, we have become modern slaves and do everything we are told and just believe everything. The media is one big scam and tells colored truth, but our politics are also based on lies and back rooms. It is no longer about people, but slaves with numbers (BSN). We are only useful to make money and we can take a mini-crop.

I understand that you want examples
You can simply search through Google and you will find it automatically, but the climate agreement is a thing that is based only on lies and old researches. You can just find it on the internet, facts! Only that does not yield money, but scare everyone and chase on costs. Yes you read it correctly, frightening ... If we do not ... "companies run away, our children can not live here anymore, etc. etc. etc ...". That is what we (just out of health care and "crazy countries") are just frightened by. I deliberately do not read any news or with an oblique eye I look. Every NOS news broadcast contains at least one false or distorted story, standard! Furthermore, I do not give any examples, because if you do not believe it that is fine too. It is my thoughts about the world and not yours.

Imagine...
You would prefer to do what you would really want to do without thinking about money, what is it? Very old but nice story. I had an acquaintance and that woman knitted socks, liked them, no idea why, but good! Everyone in the family was provided and continued to enjoy it. She then went on expanding baby socks and getting bigger, but the attic was actually full. One day she decided to put it away, but her husband thought it was a shame. They took all the socks to a market and had people bid, because they had no idea what the socks were of value. To make a long story short, they have become rich in the socks. This woman had no intention of making money, but knitted socks. Think about that ... So what would you like to do? A 9 to 5 job can also be what you prefer to do. Do not complain, because then you're in the wrong place. Personally, I would prefer to help people to make them happy. I believe that sincerely, because when people become happy I also become happy. Just go my way and be there. That makes me really happy.

How is it?
I am thinking a lot about the fact that people no longer think clearly and are actually only busy with their own activities. I do not have that intention to be alone with myself and that is the reason for me to think about it a lot. You know ... Just as honestly ... I think the majority of the Netherlands can not think clearly anymore. Everything is pampered and frightened on the other side. It makes us small and not rebellious. Pretty useful by politics and the people behind it. I do not want to incite rebellion, but something in me says it must be done. In my experience we are going to experience very crazy things. What I am telling you now could be considered and removed by the government as fake, it is possible! Now I am so small that I am not important with my blog (I know my place). If I have an opinion, I have to be careful and that is what happens in "our" culture. And if you rise far above ground level with your opinion, they literally and figuratively cut your head off. I tell what I think and I really think positive, but sometimes you can also let yourself go. I tell you that the Netherlands has a problem and that you can usually go through the whole world. Opening your eyes is basically what I want, helping you show that you no longer think clearly and are totally manipulated by the government and the media.

Go on research
I know that half of the time not everyone reads my blog and that's fine. Now that you have read this, I would like to ask you to think about a number of things and to act as blank as possible. Take a look at research and see if I tell the truth. And if you really do your best (which I do not advise you) you will encounter really shocking things and you'll go all out of your plate / roof (saying). I do not want to convince anyone, but to wake up before we end up in a real matrix.

Think clearly
Why are there more and more people who think about it as much as I do? Could it have a reason. And why do they do that? You know, I think everyone should contribute to society in his or her way, but you have to spend the majority of your life on yourself. Your life only passes once and is unaffordable, but we do work between 10 and 30 euros per hour on average. Is that worth your life? I just see it as putting yourself on sale. And what training you have or have not enjoyed does not matter. We are all people with our own limitations and possibilities. Commercially viewed and with marketing I am really a crap, but like no other understand the value of life and you do not have a pause button, but that this is it. And I would like to share that with you, because life is yours and no one else, but do you decide how to spend the time given to you as a human being? Think about the last question really well after ...

Thank you for reading!

Jouke

We go international

Life in the Netherlands has its advantages, because a lot is arranged and does not have to live without shelter and therefore not without money. And yet we are going to spread our chances and do not trust that it will be the same in the future.

In my last blog I explained how I view the world and with that also the Netherlands. I have let myself go, I think, but it is a reason that I did it. I do not want to fight against something where the roots are very deep and 98% of people believe in it. So I leave that for what it is.

What else did I say?
I told that we are going for a passive income in the future. And that I tell my personal and business stories, but also that I want to guide people personally. Especially the first I want to discuss with you in this blog, because we are building today and tomorrow. Only that is for the longer term. We also build on our future to acquire even more freedom. Now work hard for later you can also call it.

We already have things in the Netherlands
In the Netherlands we have Sjoukje vd Velde and Zonvakantie Aanbod as main features. And in addition, other things also yield something. In the Netherlands we have among 17.2 million people and a small group of them will order online. If you do that in many countries, it becomes a different story. We will serve Europe, India, America, China, Japan and South America. And we do not do that alone, but with large companies. So with a real body we can continue working.

The first thing we are currently setting up is where only real deals will come in worldwide. We are now busy filling and arranging the latest things to keep the website technically up to date. We are so busy ...

What else is going to happen internationally ...
I do not exclude the possibility that we will eventually move, because we want to really experience freedom and our lives. I do not exclude anything and I go my way. And that also means that when I write a blog depends on whether I feel like it and what it is about will be a riddle. And when a new one comes online too. I let go and see how it comes to me. It does not mean that I am not busy and do nothing, but there are more ways to Rome to use that saying.

WE LIVE ONLY 1 TIME

THERE IS NO PAUSE OR REWIND

Only realizing that has been the reason for me to live the way I want to.
Not like other people would like to see.
For me this was a revelation that you only realize when you understand and do it.

www.joukeharder.nl

Thank you for reading...

Jouke